From Father Varghese’s Desk
There has been a great deal of conversation in our world today about the importance of family—and rightly so. As Catholics, we understand that the family is more than just a social unit; it is a domestic church, a sacred space where faith is first learned, love is first experienced, and virtues are first practiced. In this busy world, where so many things compete for our attention, we are called to protect and nurture our family bonds with intentional love, grace, and faith.
Strong, meaningful relationships, whether in business, friendship, or family—depend on communication that are genuine and heartfelt. Real connection comes when we take the time to truly know one another, to listen, and to share both our joys and our struggles. Within a family, it is sadly possible to live under the same roof and yet become strangers. That’s why it’s essential that we create sacred moments of togetherness, where each member feels seen, heard, and valued. Here are just a few Spirit-filled ways to deepen your family bonds and draw closer to one another—and to God:
- Eating meals together—sharing food has always been a sign of communion. Use this time not just to nourish the body but to feed the soul.
- Hold an “evening news” session, where each person gets five minutes to talk about their day. It’s a simple yet powerful way to show that everyone’s voice matters.
- Turn off the TV and rediscover the joy of laughter and presence through board games, storytelling, or family prayer.
- Plan special events and activities, even a walk around the neighborhood, can become a cherished ritual.
- Cook or bake together—transform ordinary tasks into moments of joyful collaboration.
- Create a family yearbook or album, preserving not just pictures but memories, milestones, and gratitude.
- Write group letters to relatives or friends, fostering connection with the wider family and teaching the value of community.
- Attend Mass together regularly and make it a celebration of both faith and family by sharing breakfast afterward. Begin new religious traditions such as praying the Rosary, reading Scripture aloud, lighting the Advent Wreath, or simply saying grace before meals with reverence and gratitude.
None of these things require a great deal of money or effort—just the gift of time, intention, and love. Prioritize your family above distractions. Let faith lead the way. Choose each other, over and over again. When we make time to be truly present with one another, we reflect the love of Christ Himself. Knowing each other, forgiving each other, growing with each other—this is the heart of Christian family life. It is within these daily, grace-filled encounters that we learn to love as God loves. And it is worth it.
Have a Good Week and God Bless,
Father Varghese
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